Eloping is no longer just for young couples looking for a quick courthouse wedding—it’s become a meaningful, intimate way to celebrate love at any stage of life. If you’re over 40 and considering eloping, you have the unique advantage of knowing exactly what you want from your wedding day. Whether this is a second marriage, a fresh start, or simply the adventure you’ve always dreamed of, eloping gives you the freedom to design a day that’s truly about you and your partner.

As someone over 50 who has been through life’s ups and downs—including finding new love later in life—I completely understand what it means to want a wedding day that reflects who you are now, not who you were in your 20s. I relate to couples who want something more intentional, something that’s about their love and experiences rather than wedding industry expectations. That’s why I love helping couples over 40 plan and capture elopements that feel personal, adventurous, and completely stress-free.

Beyond photography, I also help my couples with the details that make elopements seamless and stress-free—whether it’s navigating permits, finding the perfect vendors, or choosing a stunning yet secluded location. I know that planning an elopement can feel overwhelming at first, but I’m here to make it easy and enjoyable so you can focus on what truly matters—your love story.

Here’s how to plan an unforgettable elopement that reflects your story, your love, and your sense of adventure.

1. Choose a Meaningful Location

One of the best parts of eloping is the ability to choose a location that truly speaks to you. Whether it’s a cozy cabin in the woods, a scenic mountain overlook, or a lodge by the lake, your elopement location should reflect your personalities and the kind of experience you want to have.

Great Location Ideas:

• Rent a cabin in the woods for a peaceful, intimate setting with a roaring fireplace.
• Book a lodge on the lake for stunning waterfront views and a touch of luxury.
• Find a remote mountain retreat with breathtaking scenery for your vows.
• Consider a national park elopement for an epic outdoor adventure.

2. Plan an Experience, Not Just a Ceremony

When you elope, you have the freedom to make your wedding day an unforgettable experience rather than just a formal event. Think about what activities would make the day feel extra special.

Ideas for an Adventurous Elopement:

• A sunrise hike to exchange vows with no one else around.
• A private boat ride on a mountain lake.
• A cozy evening in a lodge, complete with a candlelit dinner.
• A weekend getaway with spa treatments, wine tasting, or exploring a charming small town.

3. Pick Attire That Makes You Feel Amazing

Forget the pressure of traditional wedding attire—choose something that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Whether that’s a flowing dress, a chic jumpsuit, a tailored suit, or something completely unique, the key is to feel like you.

Style Tips for Eloping Over 40:

• Opt for loose fitting and comfortable fabrics that move well.
• Layer with a stylish jacket or shawl if you’re eloping outdoors.
• Choose practical yet stylish shoes for your location (hiking boots, chic flats, or dressy boots).

4. Keep It Simple, Yet Special

Eloping doesn’t mean skipping the meaningful details. Consider writing your own vows, bringing a small bouquet, or incorporating a sentimental piece of jewelry. If you want to include loved ones, a small gathering at your cabin or lodge afterward can be a great way to celebrate.

5. Capture the Moments with a Photographer Who Gets You

Having a photographer who understands your vision is key. You want someone who not only captures the beauty of the day but also the emotions, the adventure, and the quiet in-between moments that make your elopement so special.

Because I’m in this stage of life myself, I know how important it is to have photos that truly tell your story—not just pretty pictures, but images that reflect your love, your journey, and the excitement of this new chapter. And beyond photography, I’m here to help with logistics—whether that’s finding the right officiant, scouting breathtaking locations, or making sure you have the right permits to keep things hassle-free.

6. Make It Official

Even though an elopement is intimate, you’ll still need to handle the legalities. I help my couples navigate marriage license requirements, secure permits for national parks or special locations, and find officiants who align with their vision for the day. Every location has different rules, and I make sure you have all the details covered so you can focus on enjoying your day.

7. Celebrate in a Way That Feels Right

Whether it’s popping champagne by the fire, having a private chef prepare dinner, or simply stargazing together, take the time to soak in the moment and celebrate your love in a way that feels right for you.

Ready to Start Planning?

Eloping over 40 is about freedom, love, and creating a day that’s uniquely yours. From finding the perfect spot to helping with permits and vendors, I’ll be with you every step of the way to make sure your elopement is seamless and unforgettable. If you’re ready to start planning and want a photographer who understands your journey, reach out and let’s make your dream elopement a reality!